Brett Lavender on Instagram: "You’ve been lied to ⬇️ They told you command meant being “in control.” Still. Cold. Stoic. They forgot to tell you: control without connection is collapse. If you’re trying to lead, perform, or connect—without anchoring into emotion—you’re not commanding the room. You’re draining it. True presence doesn’t come from managing perception. It comes from emotional voltage—when your words, tone, and energy match the truth of your nervous system. Emotion is not chaos. Emot